So you want that guy down the street. You just know that it is fate that you should be together. Too bad he does not know that you exist. You need him to notice you and then you are certain he will fall in love with you. There are some things you can do to speed this process alone. Ask some friends if they have any advice such as how they landed their man. You do not want to attack him without knowing a little about him either, so you should try to discreetly figure out what he is into. You do not want to come on too strong either because this will scare him off. Make yourself look good when you are going to see him. You do not want to show up without makeup on and wearing your sweats when trying to impress a guy.

Sure after he is in love with you then it will not matter what you wear, but you have to lure him in. A man who thinks you do not take care of yourself will not be interested in you. Also when you look good, you feel good and it will show in the way you carry yourself. Make sure you are not too into your looks. Do not whip out a mirror and check your hair or reapply lipstick every time he is around.

If he thinks you are too high maintenance then this is also a turnoff. You have to have a good balance between looking good and not looking like you are trying to hard. Always smell nice, spray perfume before you leave the house, and carry a bottle with you. Make it something memorable but not over powering.

You want him to think about it later. You are actually going to have to talk to him. Sure it helps to look and smell good, but if you aren’t talking to him then you will just be another pretty face. Do not pretend to be dumb; no matter what you think guys are not really going to take you seriously whether they know it is an act or not. Speak to a guy friend about what you do well when it comes to attracting a male, and what you do poorly. Make sure it is a guy you trust who you know will be honest with you. When it comes to getting a guy to fall in love with you, you need the brutal truth.

A guy you have grown up with or your brother would be perfect for this task. Now that you have established communication with him, just keep doing things to show your interest. When you are talking to him, touch his shoulder and giggle. Laughing at his jokes will make him feel good about himself. After you have carried on for a while he will ask you out, and your evil little plan has worked!