You do not want to believe it, but you are starting to suspect that your man is cheating. Surely you are being paranoid, he would never do that. Are you sure though? Gosh he has been acting weird lately. He barely talks to you, and he doesn’t try to get you into bed as much. There are some obvious signs you can look out for if you are truly suspicious. If you suspect he is cheating, and you still want to keep him, then you need to rev up your behavior. Do sweet things for him like cooking a special dinner or getting his car washed. The first thing you should ask yourself is if he is gone a lot recently. He used to be there all the time; he was always home right after work. Lately he has had a lot of late nights with no good explanation. Or blaming it on work and you call the office and he isn’t there. Little differences can alert you to the fact that this could be a sign he is being unfaithful.

Show up to his job on one of his late nights to keep him company. Show up in a trench coat with nothing under it, and make him forget about whoever is meeting him there later. Make his coming home from work a huge deal. Meet him at the door nude, or wearing only an apron with a spoon full of chocolate. Make it so he can not wait to get home to you. Another thing you can do is send sexy text messages to him throughout his day so he is anticipating seeing you later. You can even video chat on his lunch break so you stay fresh in his mind. Is he suddenly interested in different things? Has he been listening to Reggae instead of Death Metal? That is just wrong on so many levels. No matter what he has decided to get into, if you want to keep him get into it too. If he realizes that you can be just as cool as whoever he is messing with, then you may nip it in the bud. Keep tabs on him, tell him you want to go with him to watch football with the boys, or you would love to see the inside of the Barbour Shop.

You will keep him on his toes, and he is going to start to figure out that you know something he though you did not. Of course hopefully you have not let it get to this point. Hopefully you know how to keep your man satisfied so he does not have to stray. You should keep your sex life interesting, and the activities you do together spontaneous. You would love to think that your man would never get bored with you, but nag him too much and see what happens. Just make him happy, that is the best way to keep him from cheating.